Hello, just because you think tere not real problems they are, there problems in your life everyone goes through something different and everyone handls them differently you just need to get out and experience life for what it is, you need to gain freedom and join in certain activities or groups away from those same group of people there just your type, there out there you just need to find them try to get out and sociolize on your own, college may be a good change??

Hey My name is Mindee and you are way to hard on yourself you sit there and say that u have no proublems but you do. I am not trying to be a bitch but i also self mutilate it does not matter how hard or deep or wrong your life has taken you i know i started cuttin for the exact reason as you. But then it just got worse and worse think if you really want to be one of those people you want to hang out with it. You will better off alone then trying to be something you are not. If you ever want to talk you can email me. I would like to know if u are a male or female. Take care of yourself and find something that truly makes u happy. Love always Mindee

No one knows how it feels to be you, the fact that you feel pain inside is enough for you to post here. Everyone feels pain and has the right to express it you don't have to justify your pain. I'm so sorry you are hurting, you don't know but know that someone is out there who is listening and caring about you because of what you wrote about you and the pain you are experiencing. You're not whining, you are in pain. I understand

Hi hun. This is gonna sound crazy but when i read this it sounded like you had wrote about my life. It's exacly the same for me, and i really would like to get intouch with you, so email me if you like.

I am happy to listen to your pain, to me, you have the greatest pain of all. rape, abuse, they are both bad, but, they can be treated with time and therepy. wounds heal, and memories fade, but the pain of loanliness is always there, always constant, so hang in ther, and e-mail me if u wanna talk about anything at all.

My following statement is not meant offensively, but if it is taken that way, so be it: you deserve someone better. Someone who really loves you will never, EVER tell you you have nothing to cry about, or that you're not missing something you need and deserve (such as friendship and socialization). No matter how "nice" he seems to be, how can he truly love you if he is never there for you and makes no attempt to help you with what you feel inside? It may be none of my business, but the things you experience are REAL problems, no matter how shallow or deep your physical wounds. Everyone handles things differently, and you DESERVE to be accepted and loved for who you are. There are people out there just waiting for the great friend you could be, or waiting to fall in love with you. You just have to find them. Please email me if you ever need anything. Your boyfriend may not care, but I certainly do. - Wifey