Oh my goodness... I really don't know what to say, exept I'm sorry for all the pain in your life, I hate to admit it, but I know how things feel, I understand way to much for my young age... To be honest it's a good thing you understand your daughters pain, you can help her through it, and she can help you... Take care, I truly hope everything works out for the best in your life....

Hey. Im so sorry that you had to feel all that pain. I'm 16 and i understand a lot of how you felt. i was always the kid everyone liked to hate. the one nobody felt remorse when they put me down. people started giving me problems in 1st grade. this lasted until the very end of 8th grade. i never told a soul about it until the end of 7th grade when my parents noticed that i was a totally differentperson. i too, for the longest time had a weird obsession with scabs and letting them bleed. i don't know why, but i just did. i usually received these scrapes when i was outside playing and would fall, ect. as i went outside less and less, i had less to pick at. by 6th grade, i was 'accidentally' getting hurt while doing work. a little over a month ago i cut myself. it felt so good. i don't know why, but it did. i began to think i don't want this, it isn't right. now i research the internet to find out what soulutions are out there. i have 4 friends that know about my problem and 2/4 still cut, and 1/4 did but stopped and the other never has. the 2 that still do are going to work with me, and me with them, to stop. we all want it, so we think it would be easier to do it together. i hope everything works out for the best for you. really, i do. i most likely will never meet you, but i hope to have some effect on your life. i think that you are on the right track with getting help. i hope that you can get over this problem and help others with the same. best of luck to you. i may e-mail you sometime, or not. iono for now.

Hi!I know, how you has been shocked when u recognized, that your daughter is cutting herself. I have cut myself for many long time, but now I am OK, I am visiting a psychologist, so goog luck!